A new journey.....

I will begin a new and scary journey in my life starting yesterday. I informed my husband that it was time to cal it quits. We have tried for 14 years to make our marriage work, and it is not going to happen. This is so hard. I have family I am going home to and staying with until I can get a place for me and the girls. I think I have a place I can work. I leave Sunday. I do not know the first thing about Divorce. My parents are still together. Do I find a lawyer. God this sucks.